• Parents: Trapped by Our Fears

    The real question for all of us is: What invites us to respond in drastic ways to our childrens’ misbehavior and mistakes? My hunch is that is fear. Many of the parents I work with are afraid when their children lie, steal, are mean to their siblings, swear, wear sexually provocative clothing, investigate pornography online,…

  • Consequences or Solutions?

    Solutions help children learn from their mistakes – and invite both responsibility and dignity